Board of Directors
- Debra Kousouros, Esq., President
- Kristen Gizzi, Vice President
- Blakely Brodbeck, Secretary
- Julia Peloso-Barnes, Treasurer
- Esmeralda Cruz
- Jill Deitch
- Elizabeth Galani Zimmerman
- Martha Obler Kohn, LMSW
- Ken Marsolais
- Monica Martinez-Hess
- Dan Schorr
- Sheryl Dale, Chair, Assistant Director, Mohawk Day Camp
- Patricia Carrera, CFP®, CDFA, Financial Professional, AXA Advisors, LLC
- Jean Marie Connolly, Senior Director, Altium Wealth Management, LLC
- Tom Gardner
- Wendy Gardner
- Gina R. Jackson
- Gerard A. Klingman, President, Klingman and Associates, LLC
- Penney J. Klingman
- Jeffrey Kohn, Managing Partner, New York, O’Melveny & Myers LLP
- David M. Ryan, Chief of Police Pound Ridge
- Ira M. Schulman, Partner, Pepper Hamilton LLP
- Joel Seligman, President & CEO, Northern Westchester Hospital
- Nancy K. Simpkins
- Michael A. Stillman, MD
- Helen Williams
- Eric I. Wrubel, Esq., Partner, Warshaw Burstein, LLP
- Irina Zhabinskaya, MD, Medical Director, Pediatrics, Northern Westchester Hospital
CarlLa Horton, MPA, Executive Director
CarlLa Horton was appointed Executive Director of Hope’s Door in 1997, three years after receiving her graduate degree from the School of Business and Public Administration at Bernard Baruch College where she graduated first in her executive MPA class. Horton grew up in a family plagued by poverty and domestic violence and sees her work as an outgrowth of her social justice and feminist principles. During her tenure at Hope’s Door, the agency’s annual revenues grew from $560,000 to more than $1.8 million while the annual number of victims served grew from 250 to 765. Horton serves on the Advisory Committee to the New York State Senate Task Force on Domestic Violence, the Westchester County Domestic Violence Council, the Westchester Women’s Agenda, the Legislative Committee of the New York State Coalition Against Domestic Violence, and as a member of the New York Women’s Equality Coalition, among other activist work.
Phillip G. Morton, BS, Chief Financial Officer
Phillip G. Morton joined Hope’s Door as Comptroller in 2008 after 25 years of work in both the private sector and nonprofit fund accounting field. Prior to Hope’s Door, Morton worked at Abbott House, Kaiser Permanente and Waldenbooks. Morton received his BS degree in Accounting with a minor in Psychology from the University of New Haven and serves as the Treasurer of the Tarrytown YMCA.
Dianne DeFilippis, MS, Director of Administration
Dianne DeFilippis joined Hope’s Door in 2008 as a Domestic Violence Counselor and Teen Educator, and now serves as Director of Administration. Her duties encompass facilities management at our sites in Hawthorne and Ossining, human resources administration, volunteer management, and oversight of IT needs. DeFilippis has a BS from Mercy College and a MS in Counseling from Pace University.
May Krukiel, MA, M.Ed., Director of Residential Services
May Krukiel joined Hope’s Door in January 2015 as the Director of Residential Services where she oversees service delivery in our emergency shelter program. She is responsible for client services, staff development, volunteer coordination, facilities oversight and grants management. Client services include survivor empowerment, safety planning, danger assessments, counseling, advocacy, support groups, life skills, court preparation, economic empowerment, and a 24/7 crisis hotline program. Krukiel is highly regarded for her work against gender-based violence. Prior to Hope’s Door, she served for eight years as the Director of Victims Assistance Services at WestCOP, a primary provider of domestic violence and sexual assault services, and for eleven years at the Rockland Family Shelter as their Director of Sexual Trauma Services. Krukiel is a current board member and past chair of the Westchester Women’s Agenda. She has served on the Westchester County Domestic Violence Council, the Westchester County Criminal Justice Advisory Board and the board of the New York State Coalition Against Sexual Assault. She founded and co-chaired the Westchester LGBTQ Task Force and has been an active member of New York’s LGBTQ DV Network, among other activist work. Krukiel earned a BA from Douglass College of Rutgers University, an MA in Clinical and School Psychology from Adelphi University and a M.Ed. in Counseling Psychology from Boston University.
Debbie Lauro-Conn, LCSW-R, Director of Community Services
Debbie Lauro-Conn joined Hope’s Door in 2013 as the Director of Community Services. Lauro-Conn serves as a member of the Senior Management Team and oversees victim services and prevention initiatives at Hope’s Door sites in Pleasantville and Ossining and at the Family Justice Center in White Plains. Programs include counseling, support groups, courthouse advocacy, children’s services, teen program, multi-cultural services, and economic empowerment. Lauro-Conn came to Hope’s Door with over 30 years of extensive clinical, program development and administrative experience in mental health and substance abuse. Prior to Hope’s Door, Lauro-Conn was the Executive Director of AMIC, the Director of Development for Putnam Family & Community Services and the Mental Health Clinic Director at Family Services of Westchester. Lauro-Conn received her BA in Psychology from the State University of New York at Stony Brook and her MSW in Direct Services from Florida State University. Lauro-Conn also has advanced training in Family Systems Treatment and Alcohol/Substance Abuse Treatment. Lauro-Conn is a member of the National Association of Social Workers and the Academy of Certified Social Workers.
Stacey Neumann, Esq., Director of Legal Services
Stacey Neumann joined Hope’s Door in 2018 as Director of Legal Services. Neumann provides legal representation and advocacy for victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, human trafficking and stalking. She is responsible for recruiting, training and overseeing staff attorneys, pro bono attorneys and paralegals. As part of the Senior Management Team, Neumann’s duties include coordination with partner agencies to assure trauma-informed support services for survivors. Prior to Hope’s Door, Neumann spent 17 years at the Kings County District Attorney’s Office as an Assistant District Attorney where she investigated and prosecuted crimes of intimate partner violence and elder abuse. While at the District Attorney’s Office, she was promoted to First Deputy Bureau Chief. In 2006, she was named Employee of the Year by District Attorney Charles J. Hynes. Neumann received her B.A from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst in 1993 and a J.D from Brooklyn Law School in 1996.
Gay French-Ottaviani, LCSW-R, CP, Senior Domestic Violence Counselor
Gay French-Ottaviani, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, a member of AGPA and NASW, and a Certified Practitioner of Psychodrama, Sociometry and Group Psychotherapy, joined Hope’s Door in 2001. French-Ottaviani serves as our Senior Domestic Violence Counselor, specializes in individual counseling and support group services for adult survivors of abuse, and provides supervision for the Hope’s Door counseling staff and interns. A graduate of New York University’s MSW program, Professor French-Ottaviani has taught Intimate Partner Abuse at Long Island University and Pace University and has run psychodrama groups for court adjudicated youth, dual diagnosis adults and adolescents at Four Winds Psychiatric Hospital. She is Co-Chair of NEWDAA, a consortium of DV experts, clergy, police and other first responders with common purpose to raise Domestic Abuse awareness in NE Westchester. She has a private practice in Pound Ridge.
Coco Kausar Alvi, LCSW-R, Domestic Violence Counselor/Advocate
Coco Kausar Alvi joined Hope’s Door in 2005, where she provides counseling and advocacy services with a focus on South Asian and Muslim victims of abuse. Alvi is fluent in Urdu, Hindi and Punjabi, which makes her an invaluable asset for multi-cultural services. Prior to Hope’s Door, Alvi served as the Domestic Violence Program Director at the South Asian Women’s Association in Queens and with the United Nations Population Fund where she conducted research in the impact of gender-based violence on women and girls. Through Behbud USA, she works to empower Muslim and Pakistani women; and she is active with the American Muslim Women’s Association, which awarded her a Certificate of Recognition and Appreciation. Alvi has served on the Westchester County Women’s Advisory Board since 2011. She received her MSW from the Columbia University School of Social Work and her BA in Psychology and Women’s Studies from Purchase College.
Ashley Gil, BA, Domestic Violence Counselor/Advocate
Ashley Gil joined Hope’s Door in 2015 as a Bilingual-Spanish Domestic Violence Counselor/Advocate in our Community Services program, providing counseling, advocacy and support group services at our Hawthorne and Ossining sites. Gil works in partnership with survivors on safety planning and danger assessment; identification of barriers to safety, independence and healing from the trauma of abuse; developing goals for a life free of abuse; and launching a plan to achieve those goals. Prior to Hope’s Door, Gil worked as a teacher at the New England Country Day School and as a Campus Ministry Leader in Johannesburg, South Africa. Gil has a BA from the University of Connecticut and studied abroad at the University of Cape Town in South Africa.
- Christopher Barrera, BA
- Brittany H., BA
- Caitlin Hayles, BA
- Maya Lloyd, BS
- Kacie Martinucci, BA
- Brenda Rodriguez, MS
- Rachel S., MHC
- Tami Shimkin, BA
- Liz Van Buren, MS
- Yanira Villaman, BS